Americans' behavior is rather bewildering
Contemplating life in America from the vantage point of 8 1/2 decades is rather confusing.
On the one hand, Americans are mostly good people who not only support themselves, but also open their hearts to others. Strangers are usually friendly and helpful. People rush to open doors for us. Recently, when we fell getting into our car, a lady stopped and helped us.
Americans support charities and give billions to other nations. Even our financially challenged citizens mostly use their initiative and ingenuity to live lives that would be envied by multitudes elsewhere.
On the other hand, we tolerate bloated budgets and deficits, bloated gas-guzzling vehicles and bloated medical and drug costs. We ignore many current problems and focus on a trumped-up future "crisis" in Social Security. Our leaders vow to "fight tyranny" everywhere. We have appointed ourselves as arbiters of what other nations should believe and how they should act. Our horrendous misadventures in Iraq illustrate our futility. Defense, yes. Aggression, no.
Seven score and two years ago, perhaps our greatest leader prescribed "government of the people, by the people and for the people." We, the people, need to make it so. And soon.
Dan W. Maddox
Greensboro
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Good letter, Mr. Maddox, but I don't understand the last paragraph. First you said, "Defense, yes. Aggression, no." I agree. But then you claim that Abraham Lincoln, a man who fought a war of aggression which led to the deaths of 1 million men, is "perhaps our greatest leader." That just doesn't make sense.
Posted on May 3, 2005 3:25 AM
Excellent, insightful writing. How wonderful to share the wisdom of his years, and how accurate his remarks! Thank you.
Posted on May 3, 2005 10:17 AM
In the light of his wisdom, I ask, what has caused the erosion of this country? Readers? . .
Posted on May 3, 2005 5:30 PM
My personal belief is we, as a nation, have displaced spirituality. Note I am NOT saying religion or religious beliefs. I AM speaking of the spirit of kindness, fairness, tolerence, honesty, goodness, equality, respect and devotion.
While I think most people want to be spiritual and behave in a spiritual way, a lot of people fail. It is hard to help our neighbors, make a living, attend school functions, go to church, visit our families and be the best we can be. It takes a lot of energy and time so most of us just don't try as hard as we should.
Our leaders (and , please, I am not referring to Bush alone) are becoming less and less qualified to lead this nation. And they are less spiritual. Their policies drain us financially and emotionally. They pit one segment of our society aganist the other and cause division. They suck the spirit out of the ordinary person.
Our priorities usually start with the almighty dollar. We get caught in a revolving trap and can't find our way out. We put our faith in things rather than people.
The answers to solve any thing lies within us as individuals. We need to embrace one another in the spirit of expectation; the expectation that we are going to make a positive difference in our own lives and the lives of others.
Dan said in a prior post his view of some people had changed and he decided they were not so bad after all. I related also how my attitude had changed about some of the posters here. It was not because we all of a sudden agreed with one another. I think we saw the spirit of one another and saw that our spirits were good, just different.
All this is hokey but it is what I believe.
Posted on May 3, 2005 8:15 PM
Yeah, Yvonne, in the first few arguments I had with you about smoking in restaurants, I had quite a negative view of you, but since then I've come to see that we agree on a few things, and I don't think you're all bad.
Posted on May 3, 2005 8:49 PM
Mr. Elledge, I remember also how frustrated I became about the private property stance you and Mr. Sheridan took. Although I still do not agree with either one of you re public smoking, I respect your right to express what you believe.
I have come to think highly of your knowledge of the constitution, your perseverance and your ability to disagree without compromising your integrity. And I appreciate the clever ways you manage to work into any subject your pitch for the Libertarian Party. Makes me shake my head and laugh.
Posted on May 3, 2005 10:02 PM
oh here we go again another kodak moment. Stop it your taking all the fun out of hating each other.
Wait maybe that is the point.
Posted on May 4, 2005 12:32 AM
Good morning Hayes. Have missed your participation the last couple of days. You hit the nail on the head. When you "see" a good spirit in folks it's kinda hard to hate them.
Posted on May 4, 2005 3:58 AM
You guys!
What's next, you all get together around an environmentally correct campfire in your Birkenstocks, have a group hug and sing koom-ba-ya? Then attend an anti-war, anti-Bush rally?
Posted on May 4, 2005 8:37 AM
No name, Nope. Just appreciate the goodness of spirit I see, even in the war supporting, Bush loving folks who post here.
Posted on May 4, 2005 9:59 AM
Actually I thought we would all go to "an big business profit over envirnment and screw the little people" campfire singing Money and then go to a "Lets rewrite the Constitution" campaign in Texas headed by Delay to make Bush a lifetime Pres.
Posted on May 4, 2005 10:59 AM
Sorry Yvonne just had to get that out of my system.
Posted on May 4, 2005 11:00 AM
Hayes, No apology necessary. Rightous indignation is covered in the scriptures. So there is a time and place for everything. As I was LOL I thought "Wish I had thought of that". Thanks for the humor. God and ____ (insert whomever is fitting) are pleased with happy people.
Posted on May 4, 2005 11:11 AM