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Are millions best spent opposing gay marriage?

I understand that opponents of equal marriage rights plan to spend at least $10 million in California this fall. They hope to overturn the California Supreme Court’s decision that same-sex couples have the same right to marry and form a family as opposite-sex couples do, without forcing any church to officiate or change its marriage requirements. Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger opposes discriminatory efforts to amend California’s Constitution.

It’s curious that a number of the organizations planning to spend this large sum of money are faith-based. According to the Census Bureau, nearly 5 million California citizens live below the poverty line. At least 2 million children in California live in extreme poverty, suffering due to hunger and the lack of basic life necessities. It is thought that there are 360,000 homeless in California, and a quarter of those are military veterans.

According to groups identifying themselves as “pro-family,” stopping same-sex couples from marrying is “critical” and comparable to the abolition of slavery. Fighting poverty and homelessness will have to wait.

Bob Page
Greensboro

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neocon [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

So, since there are children starving and homeless veterans the people of Ca. who oppose same sex 'marriage' (a good majority btw) should forfeit their first amendment rights?

$10 million is but a drop in the drop in the bucket compared to what has been confiscated and spent on Aids...a disease spread by promiscuous sexual behaviour among homosexuals.

How many "starving children" could be fed with the $20 billion spent annually on AIDS?...a disease that could be eradicated in one generation without any research or money.

James D. Rockefeller [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

1: $10 million is a pittance.

2: If it's their money, why should we care?

3: "a disease that could be eradicated in one generation without any research or money" applies to most diseases: you get it, society burns you at the stake, transmission stops with you - PLUS we save on our heating bill.

James D. Rockefeller [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Here's a surprise: NC is #9 of 50 states reporting in 2006 new AIDS cases.

Kayline [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Although I know it will not change any minds here, I agree with the letter writer. I just wanted him to know that, since I'm sure he sees a lot of hate every day and it might be refreshing to know there are straight people who share his beliefs.

Kayline [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Although I know it will not change any minds here, I agree with the letter writer. I just wanted him to know that, since he most likely experiences a lot of hatred every day and it might be refreshing to know there are straight people who share his beliefs.

Kayline [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Sorry for the double post.

Slaan [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

"...should forfeit their first amendment rights."

I assume you mean the freedom of religion. But this doesn't have anything to do with the 1st freedom. The ruling does not force ANY church or religious organization to physically do the marriage or other such ceremonies.

I do believe that it should though. Churchs and religious organizations don't have to pay taxes b/c they ostensibly are there to perform actions for the public good, which include performing marriage ceremonies. If they do not perform actions for a large percentage of the population they should get rid of the tax-free business, or make them do it anyways.

'...a disease spread by promiscuous sexual behaviour among homosexuals. "

This is false and you know it. Most AIDS cases worldwide are in poor families that cannot afford birth control, mostly in Africa. Why? Bush and you fundies won't even tell them what condoms and AIDs is, nonetheless how to get/pay for them.

"How many "starving children" could be fed with the $20 billion spent annually on AIDS?...a disease that could be eradicated in one generation without any research or money."

Heil Hitler.

ghost from white oak [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Sounds like money well spent to me!

Scott_Free [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Although I oppose his point of view, In fairness to neocon, when he said, "a disease that could be eradicated in one generation without any research or money," I'm pretty sure he was not suggesting eradication of gay people or anything. I took his comment to mean that HIV could be wiped out in one generation if people just quit engaging in risky sexual behavior (all sex outside the bonds of marriage). Technically, that's actually true--although it's unrealistic to think that it could or would ever happen.

gaytony [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

There will always be people who oppose gay marriage for religious reasons, and I respect their beliefs. But allowing gay marriage does not affect these folks AT ALL! Its about equality...thats all folks. If your faith doesn't believe in same sex couples, fine. Don't accept it in your church--but don't force your beliefs on me!

Since the government has sanctioned marriage with tax benefits and other rights, its only fair that gay folks get this equal right. Lets face it- gay people aren't asking for anything special, just equality!

neocon [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

AIDS is a disease primarily carried by, spread by homosexuals:

"Homosexuals experience the majority of HIV/AIDS diagnoses. According to the CDC, homosexual sex among young men accounted for 72 percent of all HIV infections among men in 2005 (this includes men who have sex with men and inject drugs). Among all individuals diagnosed with HIV/AIDS in 2005, male homosexual acts accounted for 53 percent of cases."...CDC.

The media and liberal college professors have done a pretty good job of brainwashing the public and their classroom captives into believing AIDS is just another deadly disease that we are all in imminent danger of contracting, regardless of lifestyle.

This is simply not true. Political correctness is what keeps this virus alive and spreading.

THE LIBERAL CONSERVATIVE [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

As usual, neocon shows his ignorance. This time, he sounds as if he's Jerry Falwell speaking from the grave. Or what was the name of that Republican who said all you have to do is spray your genitalia with Lysol? Same idiotic idea, different day.

WHO CARES IF GAY PEOPLE GET MARRIED?
Only the 'conservatives' who believe the allegory about a talking snake is plausible science.

HOW DOES IT AFFECT ME?
It doesn't. In fact, it doesn't affect anyone other than the two people getting married. Who my neighbor, relative or friend marries does not include a veto from me, neocon, or his nutcake friends.

With oil reaching unprecendented levels, mortgage defaults, bankruptcies, unemployment, and terrorism lurking, this is just the 'meaty' issue for the right wing nutz to utilize to energize their base. Turn neighbor against neighbor, friend against friend, all for the sake of what?

To neocon, Ghost from White Oak and all the other neanderthals, just come out and say it like you do among your other myopic friends---call people 'fags' or 'queers' or some name that makes you feel empowered. Put your true feelings on the line OR give us some real reasons for your positions. Haven't seen ANY real reasons, only bigoted remarks with no backup.

You guys have no clue that the exact arguments you currently use are not so distant from the arguments for keeping black people subservient to white people. You are the face of today's bigotry. Fortunately, you are not immortal.
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As the late George Carlin said,

"Conservatives are against abortion AND against gay marriage. So what is the one group that is NEVER going to have an abortion?!! GAY COUPLES! These conservative people are nuts!"

May he rest in peace.

Rufus_T.Firefly [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

"$10 million is but a drop in the drop in the bucket compared to what has been confiscated and spent on Aids...a disease spread by promiscuous sexual behavior among homosexuals."

Don't you wish they would all get married and stay monogamous?

Overtaxed [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

"According to the Census Bureau, nearly 5 million California citizens live below the poverty line. At least 2 million children in California live in extreme poverty, suffering due to hunger and the lack of basic life necessities. It is thought that there are 360,000 homeless in California, and a quarter of those are military veterans. "

I find it hard to believe this could be happening in California, the most liberal and highest taxed state in America. Wonder why?

hugh [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

The big fight here is the Homosexual's desire to have what society has considered deviant sexual behavior legitimized through the institution of marriage.

The other side of the coin are folks who desire to maintain a line-in-the-sand that defines deviant sexual behavior.

History sides with the latter.

ca [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

good luck gay people....blacks were subhuman said the courts of the land in 1858 and women were lesser citizens until 70 years later..both changes still enrage a few...and most of these blacks and women were flaming heterosexuals..which enraged even more conservatives.

Conundrum [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

With the divorce rate among heterosexual married couples at about 50% or better, isn't it rather apparent that straight couples don't have it nailed down when it comes to making marriage work? So, who are heterosexual couples to prevent homosexuals or lesbians from getting married? My marriage is not threatened by the union of two lesbians or two homosexual men.

Nic Danger [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

While the author of the ltte is obviously for same-sex marriage, that is not what I get as the point of the letter. Mr. Page's point is that those who don't see the issue the same way he does should spend their money in ways other than in an attempt to overturn a State Supreme Court decision; in this case, by "fighting poverty and homelessness" instead. In my opinion, that is very typical of the "progressives" (a misnomer if there ever was one!) - telling others how to best spend their money.

If TLC wants to bring George Carlin into the thread, I suggest this bit of video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LbFD4NC60EA&feature=related

It might be painful, TLC, but if you'll stick with it to the end you'll find that George just might've been posting in this thread! LOL!!

hugh [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Typical it's Demon Deacon/LC who is first and only poster to reference fags and queers on this thread.

John Robinson, don't you ever learn anything?

THE LIBERAL CONSERVATIVE [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Bob and Dale are friends of mine and they are fine people, citizens and veterans who served their country. They have two wonderful boys and they are both present in their children's lives.
With that said, I would ask those who jump up and down, "What's your beef?". What is it about Bob and his partner that threatens you? Are you afraid they are going to break into your house and give you cooties? Seriously, what is the real issue here? Are you just so stuck in a dead end career, failed marriage with dead beat kids that you must lash out at gay people?

Are you really threatened by two gay people? Do they keep you up nights, worrying about the idea they might be getting married? Are you folks that mindless that you make this some pressing priority?
Forget war.
Forget mortgage meltdown.
Forget home foreclosures, or even unemployment.
Is this really all you can come up with? Gay marriage!

If so, you are pitiful homophobes who think you are defending something, rather than seeing it for what it is.
It truly is none of your business or my business. You judge people who live together as "shacking up" but when a gay couple wants to form a monogamous relationship, you blow a gasket.

Gay people can marry now, and do whatever they please---and Hugh, guess what else? So can Black people and women!
Yep. We expect this kind of tempest in a teapot from neocon, but you should have a little more sense than to make this into something of 'UTMOST IMPORTANCE'!

Our President is spending $18 million dollars per hour in Iraq, and you sit back and think that's just peachy.
And what is the issue that gets you up on your hind legs?
Gay people getting married.
Wow.
That's really a pressing issue.
(LOL!)

THE LIBERAL CONSERVATIVE [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

NIC DANGER:

Here's the one you need to watch...over and over and over again!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrXvDXVhqfU&feature=related

It really would do you some good. :)

THE LIBERAL CONSERVATIVE [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

Oh, and NicDanger, Be sure and watch it until the end...you know, like you told me.
Dang, I miss George.

Nic Danger [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

George is missed, DD. But maybe I missed the part where he addresses the issue of the letter - people telling other people how to spend their money!

Practicing blog-sleight-of-hand again, are you? A little diversionary tactic? Please try to stay focused, so your irrelevancy will at least be consistent with the thread.

Darryl [TypeKey Profile Page] said:

And the beat goes on; Same beat, different day. How pitiful.

tonymo speaks my mind.

Shalom

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