I remember Dad:
It was about 22 years ago that Dr. Coleman Brantley died. I was in college and thought nothing like this could ever happen in our family. He was 6'4" and a heavy man (due to my mom's good cooking).
I just thought he was Dad, the man who was strong, smart and fun. Who would have thought lung cancer would claim him so young?
When he died, three people wrote articles about what a great doctor he was. I was proud, but what I would miss was how he used to tuck me in at night and I knew I was safe; how he knew early in the day I had appendicitis so that, by midnight, my appendix was out; how he took me fishing, to ride bikes, and bought me everything a little girl could want.
Now he has missed my graduation, my teaching school, my sister's wedding, her four children, and so much more.
I still have old patients of his tell me they miss him as a doctor, but I just miss him as Dad.
Keri Brantley
Greensboro


Comments (3)
Sounds like your dad loved you a lot. Sorry that you lost him so early in your life. There are very few things in life that are more precious than the relationships between parents and their children. You were very fortunate to have a good one.
I'm a little surprised the editors allowed this one through as an lte though. I'd think they'd much rather steer you towards taking out a classified ad over near the obituary section (and pay the cost related to such an ad).
Posted by nitpicker
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June 20, 2007 11:45 AM
Cut her some slack Nit. As you mentioned, it serves to remind us all of how important family members are. My dad will be 79 next month and I'm so glad he is in good health and around to see all his grandchildren growing up. I have wonderful memories of everything he did for me and my four siblings when we were kids.
I don't know how much longer my parents will be around, but I speak with them almost every day and see them quite often. It's too bad Keri was not as fortunate. At least her fond memories continue.
Posted by Dan
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June 20, 2007 6:39 PM
Dan,
I think you misunderstood my post. I wasn't harping on the writer. I think her letter was a really nice way to honor her dad.
And I'd rather read such a letter than another letter about McNair school or Iraq or abortion or gay marriage or capital punishment or some play at Triad Stage.
I'm just saying I'm surprised the N&R didn't try to charge her for it.
Posted by nitpicker
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June 21, 2007 10:42 AM