If you want information, ask a woman
We're waiting, waiting, waiting for a detailed report from our son in Tanzania.
He began his Peace Corps assignment there two weeks ago, and so far the only word has been a brief entry on his blog.
Of course, it's nice to know he was doing fine as of Sept. 24. And I appreciate that he doesn't have access to a telephone and apparently very limited access to the Internet.
But, I have proof that it's not impossible to get word out. In fact, a lot of words. ...
The other day, I received a copy of an e-mail from a young woman in Andrew's training group in Tanzania. She sent it to her parents in California, who thoughtfully forwarded it to me.
It's a long, detailed and fascinating account of their experiences in Tanzania so far. Here's a sample (be warned that the typing is terrible; the writer blames a faulty keyboard):
but there's so much more to say! so in no ryhme or reason i'll say whatever i can think of.
dont send me school supplies. the kids would love them, but it'd cause problems.
the students do have paper and pens, they share rulers, and there is an officilal tanzanian syllabus i have to teach from. my frist time teaching will be in 2 weeks. scary! i will taech in english, but mmost of the stuednts have a hard time undersatnding it. so very slowly, and repetitive.
toilet paper doesnt really exist. which is weird, becuase you ca n buy it in stores, but people dont use it. peace corps is an excption, our host familys were told we were goin gto use toilet paper. yippee!! no flush toilets, they're all pit latrnices (called a 'choo'). there's usually a spigot or bucket of water next to it to wash yourself off with your LEFT hand. hence, that hand is considered unclean.
the on ly utensil while eating is a spoon. all the food is mixed together, even if served seperately. meat is picked up with your hard. some foods are all eaten with your hand.
tea is always being drunk.
most of us have had....umml......a 'lack' of digestion due to the change in diet. basically very infrequent choo session. think about 3 times in the last 10 days. but everyone's that way, it's just taking our bodies a while to get acclimated.
i've already bought some 'native' fabric, called a konga,. it's worn wrapped around your body pretty much anywhich way.
my sisters are super helpful in helping with my homework, teaching me to cook (i tried to explain the concept of 1-minute rice the other day......now they think america is like heaven.
Frankly, this points to the difference between sons and daughters.
Boys tell their parents as little as they can about their lives. Girls spill it all.
That may be an overgeneralization, but it's true most of the time.
When our boys were in high school, we relied on one of their gal pals for information about interesting things going on within their circle of friends.
Kenny has gotten more forthcoming since he's been at college, but Andrew has never been overly communicative -- at least with his parents. I understand, because I was exactly the same way.
We don't have daughters, but our nieces seem to talk with their mothers all the time.
It's frustrating not getting much news, especially when your son is in such a distant place.
Good thing I've got another source.
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He's posted a new entry on his blog today.
Posted on October 6, 2005 10:09 AM
Hey Doug,
Wanted to be one of the first to congratulate you on your son's induction into the "Order of the Brown Hand". I was thinking; you know how in the olden days of outhouses (you know, about ten years ago in High Point according to Fantasia) how people used to take Sears and Roebucks catalogues with them for TP, maybe you could send some copies of the N&R for Andrew and his adopted villiage to use. (it looks like Andrew took Hillary literally when she said "it takes a villiage".)
Seriously now, it is very impressive that in this day and age, some 45 years after the challenge was first issued, that Andrew stood up and answered the call. It seems like a century ago, and we've been so many places as a nation and the road seems so entangled, winding and the light at times seems dimmed, since JFK, standing on wind-swept podium, said those words "ask not what your country can do for you...That somebody after all this can get up and still do it...It's inspiring! You should be proud and we can tell you are. And I mean this in all sincerity. Look forward to his posts.
Posted on October 6, 2005 3:48 PM
Thanks, savage.
If anyone thinks the N&R is fit for toilet paper, I'm sure our circulation department will sell them all they want.
Posted on October 6, 2005 4:14 PM
What the old song line Doug?
No telephone, no telegraph, just telawoman ............
Posted on October 6, 2005 9:17 PM
Greetings from another parent of a new PCT. We got our first phone call on Saturday and it was sure good to hear our daughter's voice! She is also in Tanzania and will be teaching math. I hope our "kids" all begin to communicate more often.
Posted on October 17, 2005 12:00 PM
Dana,
A phone call! That's great. We're not expecting that. Was she speaking Swahili when she called?
Please stay in touch.
Posted on October 17, 2005 12:47 PM