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A murder claims an intolerable price

My column today:

CHAPEL HILL -- Flowers mark the place where Eve Carson's body was found a week ago.

Hillcrest Road winds through a quiet, peaceful, hilly neighborhood not far off East Franklin Street. Attractive homes are sited on large, wooded lots.

Residents often left their doors unlocked -- until recently, a man who lives nearby says. Lately, there have been some break-ins. And now this, a horror beyond imagination. ...

The curious and the mournful drive slowly, respectfully past the point where Hillcrest Road intersects with Hillcrest Circle. The secluded setting explains how a predawn shooting might be heard but not seen.

On campus, the flag hangs at half staff over the main quad. Although it's spring break and most students are gone, people pass by the message boards to read "Memories of Eve" -- dozens and dozens of tributes to a remarkable young woman.

As one writer spelled out her name: "Equally Valued Everyone."

"My life is more happy and inspired by your friendship."

"I looked up to you more than you'll ever know."

"Amazing role model."

"Humanity and wit."

"Coolest person I'll ever meet at Carolina."

"She touched everyone."

"Sweetest, most easy to talk to person ever."

"Her ambition and passion were inspiring."

"Genuinely interested in others."

"I hope in my life I can make as much of an impact as you have."

"You were Carolina."

"You will live through us, we take your spirit with us everywhere we go."

"Such inspiration, such loss, such awe."

The people who knew her are devastated. Others who didn't are profoundly moved.

Violent crime occurs with numbing frequency, but this hideous murder stands out as deeply wounding.

Eve Carson symbolizes the very best we hope our young people can be, and her killer or killers represent the very worst some have become.

She valued life enough to go anywhere and do everything she could to help others; they held life so cheap -- even hers -- that they'd kill for an ATM card. It's a maddening twist of fate that their paths had to cross.

It also seems incomprehensible that it happened in this idyllic college town of fond recollections for many old Tar Heels. Its liberal academic and social culture offers an enclave of acceptance and affirmation for ideas and lifestyles that seem foreign elsewhere in the state.

But there's a new reality. Carolina and Chapel Hill aren't immune from the destructive forces -- resentment, anger, greed -- that push their way into every community, or grow up within them.

Not only is Chapel Hill not insulated from vicious killers capable of gunning down a bright and beautiful young woman, even Chapel Hill can raise such people. Like anywhere else.

This chilling story isn't only about a wonderful, promising life cut short. By itself, that's enough to produce an ocean of tears.

But it also reminds us that some lives become horribly twisted at an early age, that people among us, some barely more than children, will kill in the blink of an eye.

They can be arrested, convicted and locked away until their dying day, but nothing can repair the enormous damage they've done.

Eve's life was a rare gift. Despite her youth, she set an example of selflessness and generosity of spirit that can inspire us all. Those who molded her into that person -- parents, teachers, church -- must be proud even in their boundless grief.

Too many other youngsters lack the right guidance. Who's going to keep them from lives of destruction and help them find better ways? The cost of failure is almost unbearable.

Back at Hillcrest Road, a young couple pushes their toddler daughter in a stroller, then stop where Eve likely died. It's a fitting place for reflection or prayer:

Lord, help us raise our children to be like Eve ... and give them a better world.

Contact Doug Clark at dgclark@news-record.com or 373-7039.


Addendum: I've been asked where people can send letters of condolence to Eve's family. The university suggests this address:

Robert and Teresa Carson
Care of the Office of New Student and Carolina Parent Programs
SASB South, Suite 3318
Campus Box 5490
Chapel Hill, NC 27599

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Sandy Mann said:

Doug,

Thank you for writing what so many of us are thinking. I never had the pleasure of meeting Eve although my 22 yr. old daughter is a senior at UNC. My heart just breaks for the Carson family and the entire UNC family. Just one look at the photos of Eve and anyone can see the light that radiates from within. Such an incredible loss for her family, the UNC community and beyond. Yes, those who molded her into the person she was should be proud, but it goes full circle, Eve has left an indelible mark on all of us. Eve, may you rest in peace and your murderer(s) be brought to swift justice.

Doug said:

Thanks, Sandy. I, too, hope the killer is in custody at this moment.

It's clear from the reactions of so many that Eve leaves a powerful impression, but of course it's heartbreaking to think of everything else should would have done. Maybe other young people will be inspired to work harder in positive, helpful ways to make up for this loss.

Marian said:

Doug, well stated all.

I too pray for Eve's family and for the family of the attackers what kind of impact will it have on them? I too pray we can raise our children to be like Eve AND reach out to help other children feel so loved they will receive what they need to overcome lack they may receive from their growing up environment.

Doug said:

Thanks, Marian.

The mother of Courtney Lockhart, charged in the murder of Auburn student Lauren Burk, issued a tearful apology to her family:

http://www.ajc.com/metro/content/metro/stories/2008/03/09/auburnarrest_0309_web11.html

"I am sorry that Courtney did that. ... First let me say I'm sorry to the Burk
family for Courtney taking, taking their child. ... My heart goes out to her family."

That was a brave thing for her to do. You have to feel for her. She's suffering, too.

Sweet Baby James said:

Eve was a silver sun, just stand aside and watch her shining.
Shine into the morning light,
a silver tear appearing , now I'm crying ain't I.
Now I'm Goin' to Carolina in my mind.

James Taylor "Carolina In My Mind"

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