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This week's column: Dangerous liaisons

Those salacious, hidden-camera exposes of online child predators on NBC would be comical if they weren't so deeply disturbing.

Grown men bounce happily, one after another, into strange houses in hopes of twisted liaisons with young girls and boys they've made contact with via the Internet.

Armed with a goofy smile and, often, a six-pack of beer, each takes a seat while his unseen "blind date" asks him to make himself at home.

Then, suddenly, he finds himself on "Candid Camera."

"What were you thinking?" he's asked on national, prime-time TV.

In one case, a man strips naked in someone's kitchen while he awaits who he thinks is a teenage girl.

When confronted by a camera crew, the man sheepishly admits the error of his ways as the lecturing reporter mercifully hands him a towel to cover himself.

What's even more amazing by the obviously popular "Dateline" series is the types of men snared in the stings: school teachers, military personnel, coaches, a parent who dares bring his toddler along — and even a rabbi.

But there's more. Some have suddenly found themselves on national TV after having seen the show themselves. And some have made repeat appearances on the show.

Fool me once, shame on you ....

The stings were conducted in conjunction with an anti-online predator group called Perverted Justice and occurred in cities, suburbs and small towns.

None of these scenes was set in the Triad. But they could have been.

Joe Killian's July 5 News & Record article notes the Greensboro Police Department's efforts to catch online predators using similar tactics.

"So you don't have to look far for someone who's looking to solicit you if they think you're an underage girl?" Killian asks Cpl. Williams.

"No, not at all," Williams says. "When chatting online I would say I get an average of two solicitations every hour. That's not just guys who are saying ‘hi.' That's solicitations for sex."

The Guilford County Sheriff's Office conducts similar operations that have netted a dozen arrests over three years, says Sheriff BJ Barnes.


One of those arrests involved a man who drove all the way from Ohio to meet with whom he believed was a 14-year-old girl. The man was arrested, after a struggle, at Four Seasons mall.

Detective Alan Long of the Sheriff's Office typically poses as a 13-year-old or 14-year-old boy or girl in a popular chat site such as MyPlace.com. Sometimes it takes as few as two minutes to make contact.
The profile of the typical predator is a middle-aged male between 35 and 60 years old, Long says.

Does it ever get, well, a little creepy trading notes with sick men with sick motives?

"I would rather someone like me try to approach them than an innocent child," says Long, 39, who is himself a parent.

Barnes adds: "I've got a 15-year-old grandchild and a 10-year-old grandchild and I'm thinking, ‘My Lord.' "

"My Lord," indeed.

A March 2006 survey of 1,160 teenagers ages 13 to 17 found that 71 percent reported receiving messages online from strangers.
Forty percent said they usually chat with the stranger.


Forty-five percent said a stranger has asked for personal information during online conversations.

Thirty percent of those teenagers said they have considered meeting someone they have only spoken to online.

And 14 percent actually did.

As for NBC, when is enough enough?

The network seems to be getting so much mileage out of the exposes (and promoting them so aggressively) that one wonders if they might make it a miniseries. Or more. Over and over they show a sad parade of one man after another, snared by his own sickness and lack of judgment.

But when does raising awareness cross the line into exploitation — into using these predator traps as cheap entertainment?

Then again, maybe the arrests are worth it, high ratings and all.

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