Conduct unbecoming?
This week's column.
City Councilwoman Dianne Bellamy-Small will shake your hand with a grip so firm that you're tempted to check for broken bones.
Sad to say, the second-term representative of District 1 in southeast Greensboro has displayed a much less certain grip on the duties and obligations of an elected official. She is an enigma ... an introverted extrovert, well-spoken but tight-lipped, book-smart but politically naive. She touts her accessibility and her responsiveness but typically does not speak to reporters.
And when she does answer questions, she requires that they be faxed to her. She in turn faxes the answers back to reporters. Or not.
She even appears aloof and estranged from fellow council members, some of whom have privately expressed frustration with her words and actions.
And she continues to confound and befuddle us all with a series of odd behaviors.
In the latest incident, Bellamy-Small allegedly told a police officer, who stopped her for speeding on Feb. 7, that she intended to discuss the matter with Police Chief Tim Bellamy. She asked for the officer's card and "made a point" to tell him "that she was coming from a council meeting," wrote his supervisor in an e-mail to his superiors.
The supervisor also wrote in the e-mail that "I am hoping she did not attempt to intimidate a young officer from doing his duty and that she would not attempt to use her political position to try and adversely affect a young and impressionable officer's career."
The officer, M.J. Calvert, 24, has been on the force for slightly more than a year. He gave Bellamy-Small only a verbal warning when he might very well have issued a ticket.
Last week, in an e-mailed nonanswer to several faxed questions from the News & Record, Bellamy-Small was as cryptic as ever, saying "I am proud of the fact that our Greensboro Police Dept. is out there executing their duty" and that "the officer and I concluded our conversation and there was not (sic) problem to report."
In and of itself, Bellamy-Small's reactions in this incident might not seem all that significant. But it isn't the only incident. On Jan. 23, Bellamy-Small created an unexpected stir when she refused, angrily, to draw lots for council office spaces. She wanted the corner office, period, she said. Even when fellow council member Tom Phillips surrendered his lot to grant her desired choice, she wasn't happy. She wanted the other corner office.
Then there's the leak of a consultant's report on the police department, which has been traced to her copy and which she contends someone stole; her refusal to participate in weekly City Council press conferences; her tardiness while in office with city and county tax payments; and her vigorous promotion of herself, which politicians are expected to do, but which she can take to embarrassing extremes.
At the same time she is painfully guarded and seems intent on building a high wall around herself. For instance, I happened to share a table with Bellamy-Small, Mayor Keith Holliday and City Councilwoman Sandra Anderson Groat at the Feb. 6 Bryan Foundation luncheon. She addressed her fellow council members curtly and formally, calling one "Mayor Holliday" and the other "Councilwoman Anderson Groat." She had little else to say.
She didn't have much to say to me, either, until I asked if she was still singing. She mentioned a CD she had recorded. She also said she is working on a book about her brief tenure as a police officer. Maybe she shouldn't publish that one just yet, she said, chuckling.
Can her political career be saved? Is it even in jeopardy? That's up to the voters in District 1, who have suffered poor representation since the district was created. And who deserve better.
With her talents and her smarts, Bellamy-Small obviously can do better. (For the record, this newspaper endorsed her in the last election.) But her resume isn't the issue. Her judgment and volatile temperament are.
For whatever reason, there's a chip on her shoulder as big as the coliseum. She'd do well to get rid of it. Soon. Or the voters will get rid of her.
Comments (47)
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Allen, Thank-you for writing honestly about Bellamy-Small, you have my respect in this matter. Is there any chance something like this can make the front page?
Posted on February 18, 2007 8:10 AM
Is there any chance that the same honesty can be shown and a front page story on other lame comments/actions of other black (so-called) officials....ie, Deena Hayes?
I'm embarrassed by what some officials can get away with because of their color. I still hear the words "slave/slavemaster" echoing in my ears.
I enjoyed the honesty from today's editorial concerning the VSN program, but will the N&R hold Deena's feet to the fire over her comments and investigate her relationship with minority contractors? These corrupt individuals give us all a bad name.
Posted on February 18, 2007 10:05 AM
DBS is a liberal politician who caters to her base. She uses her position to get what she wants under the guise of "serving" the community.
She'll continue to do as long as her constituents believe she is representing their interests.
Many in "her" community view the police as an occupation army, and dearly wish they could pummel a police officer (or the White Establishment in general) with mere words as DBS did. I believe they're probably applauding her today. While her behavior appears juvenile and petty to many, it delights her base because they see Greensboro politics as an "us [black] versus them [white]" struggle. DBS struck a blow against "The Man" the other day and they loved it.
Sadly, I fear DBS's popularity in her community is enhanced because of her latest antics.
Posted on February 18, 2007 12:11 PM
good story Mr Allen,after the one about Skip Alston,i was afraid you would get your fingers broken.
Posted on February 18, 2007 12:36 PM
Jaycee:
I don't see the issues raised during Bellamy-Small's tenure as liberal or conservative. She has simply shown poor judgment, which is inappropriate no matter what political philosophy you subscribe to.
Nor do I believe her behavior has enhanced her standing among her constituents.
Remember, she barely beat a newcomer, Luther Falls, in the last election, and, in fact, thought she had lost until the final returns trickled in.
Also, I have heard complaints from some of her constituents.
Falls seems determined to run again. If the election were held today, I believe she'd lose to him.
Posted on February 18, 2007 2:01 PM
Taxpayer:
As of today, all fingers are intact.
Posted on February 18, 2007 2:07 PM
Alan, you don't think her constituents are happy about DBS making the White Police shake in their boots and bend and kiss her ring? Come on...this is Greensboro! What you categorize as "inappropriate" many see as striking a blow for the black man against the white establishment. She's a goddess in some quarters.
Posted on February 18, 2007 2:32 PM
Jaycee:
Please show us one instance of applause for Councilwoman Bellamy-Small's behavior. Also show us the evidence that her actions have enhanced her popularity in any community.
Frankly, your characterizations and prejudging of the black community are disgusting.
Posted on February 18, 2007 3:00 PM
I agree with Dave. The main things I hear in Bellamy-Small's district is that she talks more a better game about her community interaction than she delivers.
I also would dispute Jaycee's assumptions about how the black community is reacting to the traffic incident.
Maybe it's coming, but as of yet I have not received one shred of positive feedack on her actions.
Posted on February 18, 2007 3:34 PM
So you both believe that not one single solitary citizen in all of Greensboro (or DBS's area) has any positive feelings for her?
You guys think that everyone thinks exactly the same way you do??
Wake up, there's a whole world out there of which you have no knowledge.
I could take you to neighborhoods and sit down with folks who applaud DBS and her actions to "stick it to the Man" every day of the week.
You should get out more.
Posted on February 18, 2007 6:08 PM
Jaycee,
I agree and I'll bet Deena Hayes is laughing her A&& off at Bellamy's antics. Score another one for the race card players!
Posted on February 18, 2007 6:49 PM
Allen, "painfully guarded", "building a high wall around youself" "Well spoken, tight-lipped"
"book smart-politically naive", "touts accessability but doesn't speak".
Allen, in all honesty, these are all things that could equally be applied to yourself.
Now we all know that you are probably saying to yourself at the moment you read this, "but I'm just like that with you smug n.High Point a#@holes", but don't you see that's how DBS thinks of the people who would dare question her.
Posted on February 19, 2007 9:37 AM
Good column, Allen. I agree this isn't a liberal/conservative issue. It is a behavior/conduct issue.
Bellamy-Small's conduct is unbecoming an elected offical and she does her constituents a disservice. Here's hoping the voters kick her to the curb in the next election.
Posted on February 19, 2007 10:51 AM
OK, Jaycee. I'll call your bluff. Let's you and I go out together into Dianne's district and ask for reactions to the traffic stop.
Posted on February 19, 2007 1:01 PM
I personally think th enegative publicity alone has sealed her fate. She'll lose in the next election because her honesty has been questioned. For some reason everyone who takes over that district has problems. Some said Belvin Jessup wasnt experienced enough for the job and didnt accomplish much. A friend of mine said he could pick up on his inexperience watching the city council meetings. Earl Jones was too contraversal for some, now they are saying that Diane Bellamy-Small isnt an honest person.
Posted on February 19, 2007 1:50 PM
Any good newspaper/reporter would have already been in Bellamy's hood taking a poll of reactions. I'm waiting for Thursday, I'll be the Rhino has already been.
Posted on February 19, 2007 2:15 PM
Instead of assuming what the reaction is, as Jaycee is doing.
PS: I won't say it qualifies me to know what everyone there thinks, but I did grow up in that district and go there often to visit.
My offer to Jaycee stands.
Posted on February 19, 2007 2:21 PM
Oh, no...it's just a ploy to get me to the N&R building so Lex can punch me in the nose, as he threatened one time. Not a chance...
Allen, I doubt you'd have much trouble on your own finding someone in DBS's district who doesn't like the police and just loves it when someone like her "gets over."
Posted on February 19, 2007 2:42 PM
Aw, c'mon, Jaycee, I'll meet you outside of the building. And I won't bring Lex.
Posted on February 19, 2007 2:46 PM
Yeah, sure, that's what Lex said..."I'll meet you out in the parking lot!!"
I ain't fallin' for that one...
Posted on February 19, 2007 3:35 PM
Allen,
Why are you and the News-Record, in general, making such a big deal about this incident with DBS? So, she made a little huff over being stopped by a rookie cop for speeding 15 over the limit. That's probably not any more serious than what happens in this city so often?
For example, here is another traffic stop incident involving the police that I don't recall being an issue to the powers that be.
"An off-duty officer had spotted a car being driven erratically on Battleground Avenue late one night and followed it. Radio tapes showed the officer reporting that the car was all over the road, doing 55 in a 35-mph zone, and at one point turning across four lanes. By the time an on-duty sergeant, Areta A. Moore, arrived at the scene, it was known that the car was registered to Chief White. His son was at the wheel. Sgt. Moore later said that she detected a slight odor of alcohol. However, the chief, with whom his son was talking on a cell phone when the officer approached the car, was allowed to come and drive him home without sobriety tests being administered or tickets written."
"Johnson, like White, found no fault with that situation. He also found some of the other integrity issues that were raised, such as officers using their police identification cards to gain free admission to Christie's Cabaret, where topless dancers perform, to be "no big deal."
So, if Mitch Johnson found no fault with that incident, why isn't he defending DBS now? Is there some reason why DBS is the target de jour?
As was mentioned before, Deena Hayes has done stunts much more egregious than DBS, and the News-Record always gives her a pass. You do as well. So, why the pile-on on DBS??? Does DBS know too much about what really happened with the Wray Story, and the powers want her out of the spotlight? And, wasn't she your source for the leaked RMA Report? If so, you owe her a debt.
Posted on February 19, 2007 11:32 PM
Allen,
Someone suggested to me that the reason that DBS is getting different treatment is because she isn't protected by the Simpkins PAC, where as some other politicians, mostly certainly are protected. Say it isn't so, Allen. Is the Simpkins PAC that powerful in Greensboro politics and daily happenings?
Posted on February 19, 2007 11:47 PM
Stormy, I think it's safe to say you're being Allen'ed.
It is kind of fun going on Allen's blog here. It's like going to the state fair and stepping up to one of those shooting galleries where they have like these bears or hillbillies that kind of jump out from behind barrels and bushes and stuff and start taunting you, telling you you can't hit the broad side of a barn etc. Then you hit them and that shut's them up. Everytime Allen gets his bell rung, that's the end of the discussion, finito.
Allen, do you really think that when you don't answer that people won't notice that you've been dinged?
Posted on February 20, 2007 10:37 AM
Sounds like you guys need to do lunch.
Posted on February 20, 2007 11:30 AM
Seriously, and we can talk about this at the Smooze, (I can't confirm yet because I'm on the soccer-dad track and may have a game.)
there does seeem to be some confusion, on this blog more than any other, about the expectation of reply from the blogmaster. It seems at times contentious, incendiary, passion-inducing subjects are deliberately posted, replies are directed to certain people and there is no reply. Now I can certainly appreciate random bloggers not wanting to carry things any further, but it would seem the blogmaster would be held to a higher standard.
Is this supposed to be a bullitin board or a discussion? Do you post your rant and leave?
That's cool if it is. Just say so. It seems there is confusion about this.
It just seems that silence is used as a way to de-certify certain posters, whether the blogmasterposter is sick of the subject, deems it "unworthy" of reply etc, whatever. It just seems smug and condescending.
I mean, what does everybody else think?
If the blogmaster thinks the person posting is out of their flipping mind, go ahead and say it.
If you don't want to talk about a certain subject just say "I'd rather not reply".
I mean, I guess you could put a disclaimer at the top of the blog and just say "The Management reserves the right to post on contentious subjects but reserves the right to ignore your posts, particularly if your political orientation differs with that of us here at the N&R.".
Let people have it-if you think they're fools. This is one instance where mom's old axiom: "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" does not apply.
For instance, yesterday Doug told me I needed therapy. Totally appropriate. Infintitely preferable to just ignoring somebody who takes the time to visit your blog.
Posted on February 20, 2007 3:27 PM
I don't mean to be rude or unresponsive. But you tend to beat dead horses on threads that deal with other subjects.
As I said before, you may need your own blog, which you could devote to school issues if you'd like.
Posted on February 20, 2007 3:40 PM
Neither of Stormy's posts above had anything to do with the schools other than a passing reference to Deena Hayes.
And even if they did, the whole selectivly applied, High Point busing mess, represents a protean problem in this county-race and the people who exploit it. It represents the #1 problem that is keeping us from competing with other areas. It's a millstone. It's the canary in the mine and the canary's on life support. For someone in your position to simply ignore people who speak to it is not right.
How do you think that can ever be helpful?
Posted on February 20, 2007 4:34 PM
Also, another point. You want us to go to another blog-I don't think Morgan or Jennifer the ever wrote any editorials propping up the Dotmeister.
You want those poor gals taking your grief.
Not very gallant, Allen
Posted on February 20, 2007 5:13 PM
I mean, what does everybody else think?
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I think Allen is absolutely right on this. If people repeatedly try to hijack threads, he's well within his right to ignore them. Like Allen said, you could start your own blog and write to your heart's content about this, rather than trying to ruin someone else's blog.
Posted on February 21, 2007 3:56 PM
There is no such thing as "hijacking" a thread for Pete's sake! It's supposed to be a discussion!!! If you don't like someone's response then don't read it! All you whiners are just big ass babies!
I'm going to start talking about turnips! I love turnips. It was not the headline of this blog but if comments twist and turn, they can cover other topics! I love turnip soup, turnip casserole, turnip chitlins, turnip patee, yes I LOVE turnips!
How ya feeling "just saying"? ..funny how you can "just say" but others can ONLY say what you're in the mood for hearing!
I'm sick of you whiney weenies that want to control others thought AND words! Allen, you're included in there too! Your silence on High Point school topics is the loudest censorship to date!
Posted on February 22, 2007 8:47 AM
The irony of the NHP crowd calling someone else a "whiner" is too good to let pass without mentioning it. That would be like Britney saying someone else needs to clean up their act.
Posted on February 22, 2007 9:14 AM
Just S., I'm trying to understand what you're saying.
Any thoughts on why Stormy's posts above were "hijacking"?
Posted on February 22, 2007 10:01 AM
Wasn't talking about Stormy at all.
Posted on February 22, 2007 10:30 AM
Allen, just in case you forgot, Stormy's non-hijaking question was:
(paraphrased)
Do you think the Simpkins PAC is so powerful in Greensboro politics that they can determine who gets "protection"?
Just Saying, don't worry. I am not from North High Point. I'm sure you could already tell because of your clairvoyance. In my opinion, asking a question about the original thread is not a form of hijacking. However, like someone else said, sometimes discussions naturally lead to other subjects. It's OK. We don't need anyone to police it other than the original blogger.
Posted on February 22, 2007 11:12 AM
Just, I misunderstood, I thought you were implying that people got ignored because of hijacking.
Posted on February 22, 2007 11:21 AM
I have made my feelings known on this deal for some time. Repeat hijackers suck. Many times discussions do go off on tangents which is fine. We are not talking about tangents here. We are talking about single minded, dead horse beatin, off topic, NHP interjections in any and all threads. Call me a whiner but like many I have had enough. If your purpose is to turn off everybody to your legitimate concerns and the plight of the kids in NHP ... you have succeeded at my keyboard. Victory is yours. You have bored us all to tears. Your cries have the same effect on me as Deena Hayes' constant bellowing of racism. None.
Posted on February 22, 2007 12:42 PM
Mick,
You mentioned NHP and kids in your post. How dare you! You are beating a deadhorse. Never, never, never, mention them in the same post again.
Also, please go to "NHP" (wherever that is) and tell the hijacked kids that topic is "a dead horse beaten". Better yet, ride the bus with them to school and then read them your post.
I for one will gadly shut up about this topic when it is RECTIFIED!
Posted on February 22, 2007 1:15 PM
You are driving possible supporters away. Do you care? Put your energy where it can do some good. Inserting NHP/SW/Dot into a thread about DBS is a WASTE of your efforts and our time. Do something that might make a differance somewhere where it can make a differance.
This is my last comment to this as you can do what you want, where you want but....
Your passions, efforts, wit, abilities are admirable. Your efforts commendable. Your choice of venues and/or topics in which you CHOOSE to put forth these very same qualities is lousy. You make us not care. Again "race card" analogy. Basketball analogy: It is not a good pass if no one catches the ball.
Posted on February 22, 2007 2:28 PM
Frankie:
Simkins PAC? Nah.I seriously doubt it. I don't see any conspiracies here.
Posted on February 22, 2007 2:44 PM
As for why it's a big deal, it's not that big, in and of itself. But as another in a litany of incidents, it raises questions about Bellamy-Small.
Posted on February 22, 2007 2:48 PM
I must be missing something here.
where has this blog been hijacked?????
Posted on February 22, 2007 3:21 PM
Thanks Skeet. I just reread the entire comment section and never found the hijacking. Other than Allen saying, "But you tend to beat dead horses on threads that deal with other subjects" and then mentioning schools, the comments were right on track. Simple discussion, like a blog should be. That was Allen's answer to a simple, on-topic question.
"Just saying" is always such a suck-up. She must have been some kind of shrink in a former life. She wants to lead every discussion but then call herself "just saying" so she sounds neutral. Amazing, she sounds just like my ex.
Allen, thanks for your vague response, seriously.
Posted on February 22, 2007 4:34 PM
I thought I explained it in the original post: the tax problems, the blow-up over a corner office, etc.
Posted on February 22, 2007 4:51 PM
..."driving possible supporters away"--Mick.
Help me here Mick. What is there to support? If I needed "supporters" I'd go get them. It cannot be rectified if the entire cities of Greensboro and High Point got on their knees. This is exactly the problem. I do appreciate you trying to direct us problem people on what you see as the correct path, but until 6 folks on the school board grow up and decide to educate kids, there is nothing that can be done. If you seriously think you can change the minds of Dot, etc..and it seems you know the one's I'm talking about, then PLEASE let me know. All reasonable efforts are futile, you can ask any "NHP-er", all we can do now is make jokes. Really, believe me I don't get up every morning and plot to see which threads I can hijack. This is an important issue and it's too bad that your day is ruined when you have to read about it on a blog.
Posted on February 22, 2007 5:08 PM
With all due respect, is this all you think and talk about? Is it the subject of dinner conversations? Do you broach it at parties?
I understand your passion. And I appreciate it ... to a point.
I just don't think any of us wants to discuss all North High Point all the time.
And I mean that in the nicest way.
Posted on February 22, 2007 5:40 PM
I think yelling "hi-jacked" on a blog without it being true should be a punishable offense. It's like yelling "fire" in a crowded movie theater. Sometimes the unnecessary panic causes more trouble than the actual offense. Sheeesh.
Posted on February 22, 2007 6:10 PM
Allen,
Yes, and I mean it in the nicest way. It will continue to be my priority until my children are no longer being jacked around.
You throw the word "appreciate" around like you really want me to believe it. I have NEVER once seen you "appreciate" how it feels to have your children plotted on a map and bused!
I'm sorry for having a one-track mind. But when God gave me a uterus to bear children I guess I took him seriously.
Posted on February 22, 2007 7:57 PM